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THE EXPERT WITNESS
Arbitrators are often required to determine issues/disputes which may be scientific, technological or highly specialised.
THE NEIGHBOUR’S MEDIATION – EPISODE 5
When, as a Mediator, you listen to the two parties’ respective accounts two things happen – they talk + you listen…
MEDIATION BETWEEN THE NEIGHBOURS – EPISODE 4
ou have met with George + Hatty (G+H) and now you call next door + speak to Tessa who, like H, also invites you over for Tea with her and Alvin
NEIGHBOURS IN CONFLICT – EPISODE 3
George + Hatty invite you over for tea and cakes at 4pm. You sense they are good people.
MEDIATING A NEIGHBOUR’S DISPUTE – EPISODE 2
George and Hatty are in their 70’s + have been living at #6 in the Close for more than thirty years.
THE BIGGEST SOURCE OF MEDIATION – EPISODE 1
More than divorce + disputes over maintenance + access; More than family arguments over the Will.
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You are chairing a three-person Tribunal. The wingers – both female but nothing turns on the issue
LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS – EPISODE 5
Sometimes arbitrators want comprehensive opening statements – and sometimes they don’t.
LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS – EPISODE 4
The appellant’s advocate was indignant. You have touched a chord. His ego has taken a knock. But that is not your concern.
LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS – EPISODE 3
Picking up from yesterday, you are back in the Hearing Room with parties, transcribers
LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS – EPISODE 2
You, the Chair, are being tested. Does the Tribunal need to listen to claimants’ 43-page opening statement at the start of Day 1?
LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS – EPISODE 1
You are chairing a three-person Tribunal. The wingers – both female but nothing turns on the issue
Shelley-Anne Salisbury talks to Graham Perry – Special
I would like to share a Special podcast with Shelley-Anne Salisbury created on 6/30/2021. Thanks to TheMediationPod.net.
FATHER’S LATE WILL – EPISODE 4
You have met with the two children + have doubts as to whether they have genuinely displayed sufficient love.
FATHER’S LATE WILL – EPISODE 3
You caucus with the parties – first with Celia + Daryll.
FATHER’S LATE WILL – EPISODE 2
You have the scenario from Episode 1 + Indignation is strong on both sides.
FATHER’S LATE WILL – EPISODE 1
Arnold was married to Beryl, had two children – Celia/Darryl – both married each with three children.
WRITERS’ BLOCK – EPISODE 3
Picking up from Episode 1, the Hearing is over + the next step is to write the award.
WRITERS’ BLOCK – EPISODE 2
Picking up from Episode 1, the Hearing is over + the next step is to write the award.
WRITERS’ BLOCK – EPISODE 1
We are all dispute resolvers. Some arbitrators/some mediators.
WORDS MATTER – EPISODE 4
With all disputes, there is emotion, feelings, upset – even tears. When the dispute is matrimonial.
WORDS MATTER – EPISODE 3
Now your questions become more focused, less general. You have listened to the respective narratives.
WORDS MATTER – EPISODE 2
You are taking stock. You have had separate first meetings with H+W.
WORDS MATTER
Today, Day 1 of a 3 Day look at words that help.
WINGERS AT WAR – EPISODE 4
The State of Play. To your surprise, the Wingers are at War.
WINGERS AT WAR – EPISODE 3
The Unexpected Has Happened. The two parties appointed arbitrators are at war.
THE ARBITRATOR BECOMES A MEDIATOR – EPISODE 2
Civil War has broken out. Friction between the two Wingers. It is more than mere tension.
THE ARBITRATOR BECOMES A MEDIATOR – EPISODE 1
I return to a theme briefly mentioned some months back..
TRADE ARBITRATORS v LAWYER ARBITRATORS EPISODE 4
Lord Hamblen’s pronounced on the issue of business context v dictionary definitions
TRADE ARBITRATORS + LAWYER ARBITRATORS – EPISODE 3
There is consensus. Commodity arbitration needs the trade + lawyers as arbitrators.
TRADE ARBITRATORS + LAWYER ARBITRATORS – EPISODE 2
Are arbitrators drawn from the commodity trade best placed to be the decision-makers
TRADE ARBITRATORS + LAWYER ARBITRATORS – EPISODE 1
A recent Zoom Meeting of the Commodity Arbitration Club
The Mother’s Illness – Episode 5
A new issue is now in the open and it affects the course of the dispute between parents and daughter.
THE MOTHER’S ILLNESS EPISODE 4
You have had a private meeting with the parents who have disclosed…
MEETING DAUGHTER + FIANCEE EPISODE 3
You have met the parents. Their issues are clear. Now the daughter + fiancée..
THE FAMILY PROPERTY DISPUTE – EPISODE 2
You have held the first meeting – just you, the parents, the daughter + the fiancée.
THE FAMILY PROPERTY DISPUTE EPISODE – 1
Mum + Dad have a single daughter, Susan, engaged to be married.
WHY THIS COLUMN?
A 24hr pause in order to explain why this daily column is written. What does it say? Who is it for?
LATE APPLICATION TO SUBMIT NEW EVIDENCE – EPISODE 5 – FINAL EPISODE
You would be entitled to reject the late documents because Buyers + Buyers..
LATE APPLICATION TO SUBMIT NEW EVIDENCE – EPISODE 4
Four clear points;-
Appellant Buyers’ have overlooked the documents.
NEW EVIDENCE – EPISODE 3
Three points have emerged. The new evidence is important.
LATE APPLICATION TO SUBMIT NEW EVIDENCE – EPISODE 2
Important – Do not read the late evidence. Hand it back to the Buyers’ advocate.
LATE EVIDENCE EPISODE 1
You are the Chair of a five-person Board of Appeal. Sellers won the first tier. Buyers appeal.
THE CLAIMANT’S OVER-ACTIVE LAWYER
MEDIATION You have won the day. You isolated the trouble threatening Claimants Over-Active Lawyer (renamed COAL). You worked your magic on the parties. You created momentum + things fell into place. It is not always like this. Mediation can be derailed. Success is not...
THE OVER-ACTIVE PLAINTIFF’S LAWYER – EPISODE 5
COMMENT FOR THE DAY MEDIATION Things are going your way but still some hurdles. Your talk with the parties has gone well. You are discussing settlement. But what about the Plaintiff’s Over-Active Lawyer (POAL). His ego is bruised + which is dangerous. You want him...
THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER EPISODE 4
COMMENT FOR THE DAY MEDIATION Can you get the parties + their lawyers to agree to two simultaneous side-by-side meetings? The first with you + the parties. Second – the 2 lawyers working on the detail. You hope so. It is the way forward. You think hard overnight. What...
THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER – EPISODE #3
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #93MEDIATION The claimant’s lawyer is over-prominent. He is presenting problems, not solutions. Two matters in your favour. First, the parties earlier good commercial relationship. Second, if there is to be a solution, then there is detail...
THE ASSERTIVE LAWYER
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #92 EPISODE 2 MEDIATION You sense you have a problem with the Claimants’ over-active lawyer. He has too much to say. Is it a one-off or a sign of things to come? It’s the latter + the problem is getting bigger, not smaller. Does he have problems...
THE DOMINATING SOLICITOR EPISODE 1
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #91 MEDIATION The scenario. The solicitors representing the two parties to a dispute have advised their clients to pull back from the brink and, instead of going to arbitration, have decided to give mediation a chance. Your appointment as mediator...
THE MANIPULATIVE ADVOCATE
COMMENT OF THE DAY #90 FINAL EPISODE #5 Receiving an appointment as Chair is an honour + a reflection of confidence in your ability to handle the many different expectations of being in charge. It is a combination of two matters - first, your inherent character +...
THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE ADVOCATE
COMMENT FOR THE DAY. #89 EPISODE 4 You announce the Board’s decision. “Appellants application for 30min preparation time + 1.30hrs for Reply Submission is refused. The Board has considered all relevant circumstances. There is no need for an adjournment to another...
THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REP
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #88 EPISODE 3 The Clock is ticking. The cleaners have not arrived but are edging closer to Holborn Tube. Will the Board agree to press ahead with the 15/30 solution or settle for an adjournment of two months 15m - prepare reply submissions + 30 m...
THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #87 Following the narrative, you have an application from the Buyers' trade rep for an adjournment to allow time to prepare + deliver closing submissions. Sellers' trade rep opposes. The Board goes into caucas. You are the chair. Are Buyers...
THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #86 ARBITRATION The narrative. You are the chair of an Appeal set down for 3 days. Buyers are appealing a first-tier decision that awarded substantial damages to Sellers. You can sense that the Board believes the Tribunal made the correct decision....
PRIVATE + CONFIDENTIAL LAST EPISODE
COMMENT OF THE DAY #84 MEDIATION I want to conclude this 3 part topic by stressing that “private + confidential” is a means to an end. You, personally, have to be private + confidential. Never become loose-lipped. But the purpose? To get the party to engage/talk/get...
DISCRETION – EPISODE 2
COMMENT OF THE DAY #83 ARBITRATION The problem of the inconsistent exercise of discretion can be solved by better training. This will enable them to blend their trade knowledge with decision-making experience. No Training means Conflicting Decisions. This is no good...
PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #81 MEDIATION The words "private + confidential" are spoken so often that the real meaning is often lost. In mediation, you have your first private one on one with Party A - there will be more as you gradually strip away the leaves of the...
“DISCRETION – AGAIN”
COMMENT OF THE DAY #80 #11 ARBITRATION A popular criticism of football referees is their lack of consistency People see two apparently identical incidents in a match. One referee awards a free-kick to Team A and another referee to Team B. But football is fast-moving +...
“PRIVATE + CONFIDENTIAL”
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #73 10 APRIL 2021 MEDIATION The term "Private + Confidential" is often seen as a given. But too often is taken for granted + Mediators need to remind the parties at the beginning of each meeting of the importance + significance of these three...
“MEDIATION IS NOT ARBITRATION”
COMMENT FOR THE DAY #78 8 MAY 2021 MEDIATION People put Arbitration + Mediation together because they are alternative forms of dispute resolution but the differences are more significant than the similarities. The two processes have different outcomes; different...
Episode
- AN ANXIOUS NEW ARBITRATOR
- AN ARBITRATOR STUMBLES
- ANGER MANAGEMENT
- ARBITRATION – FEES OF ARBITRATORS
- ARBITRATOR/MEDIATOR
- ARBITRATORS FEES AGAIN
- AWKWARD QUESTIONS
- BACK TO BASICS – A MATRIMONIAL MEDIATION
- DETERMINED NEUTRALITY
- DISCRETION
- DISPUTE RESOLUTION
- FAMILY TENSIONS
- FATHER’S LATE WILL
- FRAUDULENT DOCUMENTS
- GENDER ISSUES AT SCHOOL
- HOUSING AFGHANISTAN REFUGEES
- LATE APPLICATION TO SUBMIT NEW EVIDENCE
- LENGTHY ORAL SUBMISSIONS
- MEDIATION - ANGER MANAGEMENT
- MEDIATION – DENTISTS DISAGREE
- NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES
- NEW WORLD – NEW WORDS
- POST HEARING EVALUATION
- THE ARBITRATOR BECOMES A MEDIATOR
- THE BACKGROUND
- THE BIGGEST SOURCE OF MEDIATION
- THE CORE QUALITY
- THE DOMINATING SOLICITOR
- THE EXPERT WITNESS
- THE FAMILY PROPERTY DISPUTE
- THE FLEXIBILITY OF MEDIATION
- THE MEDIATORS’ SKILLS
- THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER
- THE STORY SO FAR
- TO INTERVENE OR NOT TO INTERVENE
- TRADE ARBITRATORS + LAWYER ARBITRATORS
- UKRAINIAN REFUGEES
- WORDS MATTER
- WRITERS’ BLOCK