Mediation

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 4

MEDIATION #247 THE MEDIATOR GETS UP TO SPEED You meet informally with the Lady Mayoress [LM]. You played together in the lacrosse team at school + have kept an association down the years. You explain that in your work as a mediator you have been exposed to the Second...

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 3

MEDIATION #246 TENSIONS REVEALED You plan for the second meeting with the Barratts and reflect on how to raise the second house issue. Being blunt + straightforward is not your way preferring, instead, a step-by-step approach + you plan accordingly. But the initiative...

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 2

MEDIATION #245 THE OTHER SIDE SAYS The Canons are quite different from their neighbours. Both are 45ish. He is good looking + exudes confidence. He is “something” in Finance and She is well dressed, tidy, neat + experienced in Executive Recruitment. They are without...

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 1

MEDIATION #244 THAT ARTICHOKE AGAIN So what is the actual dispute? Is it what you are hearing from the parties or is there an unexpressed agenda which is driving the parties’ passions? Is there A Big Unmentionable? This explains why Listening is such an important...

GENERATIONS IN CONFLICT. EPISODE 3 #291

We have looked at Courage + Speaking Up. Now let’s look at Preparation because this, too, is an issue of Character. In short there are two choices – Skim or Read.

GENERATIONS IN CONFLICT. EPISODE 2 #290

We have looked at Courage + Speaking Up. Now let’s look at Preparation because this, too, is an issue of Character. In short there are two choices – Skim or Read.

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THE MEDIATOR PRODS – EPISODE 2

THE MEDIATOR PRODS – EPISODE 2

You have been appointed as Mediator by the Council Chief Executive Officer [CEO] and she has informed all interested parties of your appointment including the brother + siste

GRASPING THE NETTLE EPISODE 6

GRASPING THE NETTLE EPISODE 6

The CEO is not the problem. He wants it to go away so he can float his company. He is motivated to succeed +

WHEN NOT TO PRESS EPISODE 5

WHEN NOT TO PRESS EPISODE 5

You sense that Olivia is keen to speak. Sometimes in a Mediation, a party will clam up + say little.

OLIVIA SPEAKS EPISODE 4

OLIVIA SPEAKS EPISODE 4

You sense that Olivia is keen to speak. Sometimes in a Mediation, a party will clam up + say little.

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