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NEIGHBOURS IN CONFLICT – EPISODE 3

MEDIATION #136 George + Hatty invite you over for tea and cakes at 4pm. You sense they are good people. No mysteries or surprises. No issues with their children or grandchildren. They have lived in the house for almost 30 years. Significantly, they had a very good...

MEDIATING A NEIGHBOUR’S DISPUTE – EPISODE 2

MEDIATION #135 George and Hatty are in their 70’s + have been living at #6 in the Close for more than thirty years. Life has been good to them. They are popular in the community + are known to be generous when residents are asked to support local issues – parking,...

THE BIGGEST SOURCE OF MEDIATION – EPISODE 1

MEDIATION #134 More than divorce + disputes over maintenance + access; More than family arguments over the Will; More than big set piece commercial disputes between blue chip companies. There is one standout issue that heads the list of mediation topics – neighbour...

#133

ARBITRATION + MEDIATION#270 A note to let you know that a 7-day family break in the Cotswolds means a temporary interruption in my daily posts on Arbitration/Mediation. So, no new storyline today. Nest Post on 17 July 2021 Not quite the end of the story because...

AN ANXIOUS NEW ARBITRATOR – EPISODE 4

We know where we are. The new Arbitrator B has concerns about the functional imbalance of the Tribunal. She feels that fellow winger, Arbitrator A, is taking the initiative and setting the agenda.

AN ANXIOUS NEW ARBITRATOR – EPISODE 3

B is unsettled. She senses that things are not right. To her way of thinking – based on her training – the Tribunal is composed of equals.

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STRENGTHS + WEAKNESSES

STRENGTHS + WEAKNESSES

ARTICLE #33 You are a family mediator. You are accredited + experienced + well organised. You have a track record + you get appointments. But something is wrong. Unresolved blockages have occurred. Solutions are not so easy to reach. You are in a corner. What to do?...

DEFINE THE ISSUES

DEFINE THE ISSUES

COMMENT OF THE DAY #32 When the talking is done, the hearing is over and the drafting begins are you clear in your mind about the issues you have to address? Often the answer is "Yes". In many cases, the issues stand out + you know the sequence of matters you have to...

LOOKING AT THINGS FROM THE OTHER SIDE

LOOKING AT THINGS FROM THE OTHER SIDE

COMMENT OF THE DAY POST#31 As a mediator, you know you are making progress if you can get a party to move away from inflexible consideration of their own case. Actually - it is one of the hardest initiatives to get underway. It is a "human thing". The parties focus on...

TIRED AND DULL

TIRED AND DULL

COMMENT OF THE DAY #30 It happens. Arbitrators become jaded. Work piles up. You are losing your sparkle. You are not on top. You are falling behind. You are not leading - just following. And you are no good to anyone. Mistakes will happen + you will be failing to...

PARTIES BEWARE OF INQUISITORIAL ARBITRATORS

PARTIES BEWARE OF INQUISITORIAL ARBITRATORS

POST #29 Arbitrators can require answers to awkward questions. Not in every situation but the parties need to know that they can come unstuck. In Post 27 I posed a question - can Arbitrators require parties to disclose documents they would prefer did not seek the...

THE BIG OPPORTUNITY

THE BIG OPPORTUNITY

POST#28 You are a sole mediator negotiating a financial arrangement following the divorce of an husband + wife (with young children) still in strife mode. Things are not going well. Suddenly there is an explosion - a dispute over the house paintings - no money value...

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