Thought For The Day

IF IT GOES WRONG… FINAL EPISODE #7

MEDIATION #170 You have met with the Boy, the Parents, the Head + the Chair of Governors. You have not overlooked the Common Room – the teachers need to be on board. Your efforts have been successful. The Boy feels more relaxed talking about his identity. The “Bully”...

THE MEDIATOR ACTS EPISODE 6

MEDIATION #169 The Mediator is ready to move from Listening to Acting. But the Mediator is not an Arbitrator. The Mediator is not “in charge” + does not issue instructions. He/She remains consensual at all times. The Mediator has a plan – can it be sold to the...

THE MEDIATOR MAKES A MOVE – EPISODE 5

MEDIATION #168 Our Mediator, male or female, has done his/her homework. The Mediator has spoken to all the relevant parties + listened. The Mediator understands their priorities, their problems + their outlook. The Mediator is ready to act, to go on to the front foot...

GENDER ISSUES AT SCHOOL – EPISODE 4

MEDIATION #167 So far the Mediator has met privately with The Schoolboy, His Parents, The Irresponsible Form Teacher and the Head. Now you meet with the Chair of Governors – new to the post and unsettled about how to deal with the problem. He has reported to his...

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 1

So what is the actual dispute? Is it what you are hearing from the parties or is there an unexpressed agenda which is driving the parties’ passions? Is there A Big Unmentionable?

ISSUES FOR ARBITRATORS – EPISODE 8

This is the final episode of the focus on the responsibilities of an arbitrator facing issues of delays, promptness, over-bearing fellow wingers, inactive fellow wingers, being individually responsible

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THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE

THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE

COMMENT FOR THE DAY #87 Following the narrative, you have an application from the Buyers' trade rep for an adjournment to allow time to prepare + deliver closing submissions. Sellers' trade rep opposes. The Board goes into caucas. You are the chair. Are Buyers...

THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE

THE MANIPULATIVE TRADE REPRESENTATIVE

COMMENT FOR THE DAY #86 ARBITRATION The narrative. You are the chair of an Appeal set down for 3 days. Buyers are appealing a first-tier decision that awarded substantial damages to Sellers. You can sense that the Board believes the Tribunal made the correct decision....

PRIVATE + CONFIDENTIAL LAST EPISODE

PRIVATE + CONFIDENTIAL LAST EPISODE

COMMENT OF THE DAY #84 MEDIATION I want to conclude this 3 part topic by stressing that “private + confidential” is a means to an end. You, personally, have to be private + confidential. Never become loose-lipped. But the purpose? To get the party to engage/talk/get...

DISCRETION – EPISODE 2

DISCRETION – EPISODE 2

COMMENT OF THE DAY #83 ARBITRATION The problem of the inconsistent exercise of discretion can be solved by better training. This will enable them to blend their trade knowledge with decision-making experience. No Training means Conflicting Decisions. This is no good...

PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL

PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL

COMMENT FOR THE DAY #81 MEDIATION The words "private + confidential" are spoken so often that the real meaning is often lost. In mediation, you have your first private one on one with Party A - there will be more as you gradually strip away the leaves of the...

“DISCRETION – AGAIN”

“DISCRETION – AGAIN”

COMMENT OF THE DAY #80 #11 ARBITRATION A popular criticism of football referees is their lack of consistency People see two apparently identical incidents in a match. One referee awards a free-kick to Team A and another referee to Team B. But football is fast-moving +...

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