Mediation

IF IT GOES WRONG… FINAL EPISODE #7

MEDIATION #170 You have met with the Boy, the Parents, the Head + the Chair of Governors. You have not overlooked the Common Room – the teachers need to be on board. Your efforts have been successful. The Boy feels more relaxed talking about his identity. The “Bully”...

THE MEDIATOR ACTS EPISODE 6

MEDIATION #169 The Mediator is ready to move from Listening to Acting. But the Mediator is not an Arbitrator. The Mediator is not “in charge” + does not issue instructions. He/She remains consensual at all times. The Mediator has a plan – can it be sold to the...

THE MEDIATOR MAKES A MOVE – EPISODE 5

MEDIATION #168 Our Mediator, male or female, has done his/her homework. The Mediator has spoken to all the relevant parties + listened. The Mediator understands their priorities, their problems + their outlook. The Mediator is ready to act, to go on to the front foot...

GENDER ISSUES AT SCHOOL – EPISODE 4

MEDIATION #167 So far the Mediator has met privately with The Schoolboy, His Parents, The Irresponsible Form Teacher and the Head. Now you meet with the Chair of Governors – new to the post and unsettled about how to deal with the problem. He has reported to his...

THE MEDIATOR AGONISES – EPISODE 4

So two issues now face the Mediator – first, does she have feelings for Juliet and, second, if she does where does that leave her in relation to the Mediation?

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THE CLAIMANT’S OVER-ACTIVE LAWYER

THE CLAIMANT’S OVER-ACTIVE LAWYER

MEDIATION You have won the day. You isolated the trouble threatening Claimants Over-Active Lawyer (renamed COAL). You worked your magic on the parties. You created momentum + things fell into place. It is not always like this. Mediation can be derailed. Success is not...

THE OVER-ACTIVE PLAINTIFF’S LAWYER – EPISODE 5

THE OVER-ACTIVE PLAINTIFF’S LAWYER – EPISODE 5

COMMENT FOR THE DAY MEDIATION Things are going your way but still some hurdles. Your talk with the parties has gone well. You are discussing settlement. But what about the Plaintiff’s Over-Active Lawyer (POAL). His ego is bruised + which is dangerous. You want him...

THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER EPISODE 4

THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER EPISODE 4

COMMENT FOR THE DAY MEDIATION Can you get the parties + their lawyers to agree to two simultaneous side-by-side meetings? The first with you + the parties. Second – the 2 lawyers working on the detail. You hope so. It is the way forward. You think hard overnight. What...

THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER – EPISODE #3

THE OVER-ACTIVE PARTY LAWYER – EPISODE #3

COMMENT FOR THE DAY  #93MEDIATION The claimant’s lawyer is over-prominent. He is presenting problems, not solutions. Two matters in your favour. First, the parties earlier good commercial relationship. Second, if there is to be a solution, then there is detail...

THE ASSERTIVE LAWYER

THE ASSERTIVE LAWYER

COMMENT FOR THE DAY #92 EPISODE 2 MEDIATION You sense you have a problem with the Claimants’ over-active lawyer. He has too much to say. Is it a one-off or a sign of things to come? It’s the latter + the problem is getting bigger, not smaller. Does he have problems...

THE DOMINATING SOLICITOR EPISODE 1

THE DOMINATING SOLICITOR EPISODE 1

COMMENT FOR THE DAY #91 MEDIATION The scenario. The solicitors representing the two parties to a dispute have advised their clients to pull back from the brink and, instead of going to arbitration, have decided to give mediation a chance. Your appointment as mediator...

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