Mediation

NEIGHBOUR DISPUTES + SECOND HOMES – EPISODE 1

MEDIATION #244 THAT ARTICHOKE AGAIN So what is the actual dispute? Is it what you are hearing from the parties or is there an unexpressed agenda which is driving the parties’ passions? Is there A Big Unmentionable? This explains why Listening is such an important...

1 NARRATIVE AND 2 ISSUES – EPISODE 6

MEDIATION #234 The First Issue is the feelings that the female Mediator has for Juliet, the wife in the matrimonial mediation. Today in 2022 the norms of personal relationships are undergoing change – single sex marriage is a fact of life + male/male and female/female...

THE MEDIATOR CONFIDES IN JULIET – EPISODE 5

MEDIATION #233 The Mediator, usually a relaxed + reassuring conversationalist, is “all over the place”. In a departure from her normal ways, she avoids eye contact, stumbles with her words and conveys to Juliet an awkwardness she has never previously exhibited. Juliet...

THE MEDIATOR AGONISES – EPISODE 4

MEDIATION #233 So two issues now face the Mediator – first, does she have feelings for Juliet and, second, if she does where does that leave her in relation to the Mediation? First things first – is this something significant? How does the Mediator know? After all,...

GENERATIONS IN CONFLICT. EPISODE 2 #290

We have looked at Courage + Speaking Up. Now let’s look at Preparation because this, too, is an issue of Character. In short there are two choices – Skim or Read.

GENERATIONS IN CONFLICT. EPISODE 1 #288

We have looked at Courage + Speaking Up. Now let’s look at Preparation because this, too, is an issue of Character. In short there are two choices – Skim or Read.

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OLIVIA SPEAKS EPISODE 4

OLIVIA SPEAKS EPISODE 4

You sense that Olivia is keen to speak. Sometimes in a Mediation, a party will clam up + say little.

THE MEDIATOR MEETS OLIVIA 3

THE MEDIATOR MEETS OLIVIA 3

The approach? Be gentle. Talk around the edges. Nothing direct. Build a picture for yourself.

THE STORY SO FAR EPISODE 1

THE STORY SO FAR EPISODE 1

A number of points arise from the Arbitrator’s indiscretion in meeting with the Observer.

THE CORE QUALITY EPISODE 4

THE CORE QUALITY EPISODE 4

A number of points arise from the Arbitrator’s indiscretion in meeting with the Observer.

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Mr Graham Perry M.A. Cantab FCIArb

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